We’ve all seen those films, ‘Notting Hill,’ ‘Love Actually,’ ‘When Harry Met Sally.’ Those really intimate films that you admire so much and want so much. So excuse my ‘Giggle Blog’ irony.. but they’re NOT like the movies (and that SUCKS)!
You see two people completely in love and want to be held the same, you want to mean that much to someone else and you long for a ‘happy ever after.’ (Cheese alert)
When did relationships become so difficult? When we are so involved with Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, it’s sometimes SO hard to see what is really in front of you. Sitting in front of the TV with a share bag of crisps just doesn’t cut it sometimes. Are women just hard to please? Or is it men?
I’ve been with B for nearly 3 years. After the amazing honeymoon period, things seem to get so much more serious. Don’t get me wrong I like it, but sometimes I wish we still stayed up for hours chatting & laughing. We live apart (because of studies) which puts a HUGE strain on our relationship every day we are apart. However, perks include meeting up again.. that first hug. So warm and such a safe feeling. Every day we’ve missed out on we spend cuddling in bed, watching films, going out to eat, the cinema.. just bliss.
So lately I’ve been really stressed.. I have to redo a year of my studies due to X reason which I refer to as “the thing that happened in the past.” I haven’t quite got to giving it a nickname yet apart from it is SHIT and I will get onto it one day in the Giggle Blog future.. but it’s put so much strain on us and I’ve found B in his man cave a lot more. Like yeah guys need their space cos you know..women can be overbearing bitches.. but I need him and he knows this so much.
I recently started taking AD’s again to get me on a normal level but they’re making me groggy and snappy too.. can’t win can we? Is anyone else on AD’s? I’d like to hear from you and your experiences. It’s nice to take comfort for each other when let’s face it.. I’m just a computer screen and some text 😉
Is anyone else struggling with a long distance relationship.. whether you’re in a hetero, homo, open, complicated one ? Feel free to comment on my Giggle Blog and I will always return your comments.
So whatever your age, relationship status, relationship type, please get in touch. Helping & getting advice from someone you don’t know is so much easier than a family member or someone who is linked to you i.e. work, studies, friend.
Giggle Blogs is here for you.. and I’ll always share my day with you when I can.
Signing out.
Giggles. X
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